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- Building a solid reputation and being recognized is the cornerstone of trust in business. - Being known establishes your credibility and lays the groundwork for future business relationships. - Prioritize making your presence felt to ensure your potential clients "know" you.
Originally posted November 2, 2023 on JustCordes.com
My grandmother constantly said, “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know.” It drove me crazy because I thought I could succeed simply by my merit and knowledge. However, she was right.
Our human skills and our ability to connect with others is probably the single most important skill we can develop as business owners. One of the most important rules of business is that people need to *know, like and trust* (KLT) you before they will buy from you, and this general rule applies to much of life, not just business. Even as a teacher, I had to consider *know, like and trust* because these factors were key to getting my students to be responsive and willing to learn from me. Even though I was an expert in my subject, my students wouldn’t learn from me unless they got to *know, like and trust* me. As a business owner, building the KLT factor is where I spend most of my time.
In case you aren’t convinced, here are some key reasons to work on building your connections.
How do we get people to know, like and trust us? In this three-part series, I will share how to work on each factor.
Before customers make a purchase, there are several key things they need to know about you and your business. Of course, they will want to know details of your products and services, warranties, prices, etc.. We often consider only that information, but when you are an entrepreneur, they are buying your personal brand, so they need to know more about you as an individual. This knowledge is crucial for building trust and a sense of connection. Here are the essential aspects customers should be aware of:
By providing transparency, clear communication, and an understanding of the customer's needs, you build trust and make it easier for potential customers to decide to buy from your business.
Getting to know people does not happen overnight. Be patient and be intentional. Here are the main ways you can start those relationships so that your target audience gets to know you.
Share your authority
Regularly share your knowledge in your industry so that your audience starts to see your authority.
Be Present
Your audience will never get to know you if you are not in the right spaces. Figure out where they are, go there and interact with them. Don’t be a lurker or a cringy salesperson, but go and provide value that shows your authority (reread above!).
After you are in a group, if it doesn’t seem to be the right place, leave it! You are not serving yourself or your audience by being everywhere. Focus your attention, and be intentional about which groups you give time and energy to.
Be Personal and real
Getting to know you involves knowing you as a whole person. You can be the best and most present authority out there, but if your audience doesn’t feel a personal connection to you, they may not buy. We want to buy from relatable people, and that means we find some commonalities with them. Maybe we both have a dog or love hiking on the weekends?
Your unique combination of personal and professional traits helps you stand out in a competitive market. People want to buy from people they feel connected to in some way, and if they see you share common interests and hobbies, you are more relatable.
Share What You Do
People may ‘know’ you, but they don’t know how you can help them. Take the next step and share how you help. Everywhere you go, you have an opportunity to share with other people what you do.
All of my first customers were friends and family who saw my posts on social or saw my new email signature. These people already trusted me, they just needed to know that I offered something that could help them.
Don’t fret, you don’t need to do all of this all at once. Book a call with Cordes to assess your systems of building your know-like and trust factor. After analyzing your current processes, we will identify 3 actions you can take to increase your impact.
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